Physical intimacy is a part of every romantic relationship, and so it takes understanding and unity to work out a synchronized one at that.
Be that as it may, there are a lot of misconceptions and myths about how a perfect intimate relationship should look like. Well, here is a spoiler, there is no perfect situation or relationship!
Intimacy is an important part for couples but it is equally as paramount, that the truths be discovered about this aspect of living.
First and foremost, it involves a lot of practice. Yes, no performs outstandingly at a show without rehearsals and so is the case for intimacy as well. It takes two to tango, and both partners have to bear in mind that there would be a lot of inconveniences on the way to perfection and discovery.
Physical exploration is great way to make ends meet in this activity. However, you begin to explore your partner’s body, you should also have full knowledge of yours, hence when you find out the differences, you can channel the fusion to your advantage.
It is perfectly ok to want different things during intimacy, which brings to the next important thing about intimacy which is communication. Communication is as good as the whole exercise itself. It helps partners know their weaknesses, as well as find a solution towards channeling their strengths in the right direction.
Without adequate and timely communication, a lot of things would go wrong in bed, and at the end of the day, we would have both partners sulking because their needs were not met in due time.
Men and Women act and react differently when it comes to getting physical. It is also normal for both partners to possess a high libido. In as much as physical intimiacy is also a psychological activity, the effect varies on both sides of the fence.
Despite the common ground on which each person finds to camp, there are also some peculiarities when it comes to individuals, hence do not judge by the word on the streets or the general talk of the town, get to know your partner better.
While it fosters affection and closeness, it is also a major point of conflict, so if you are having issues with your partner about this, you are definitely not alone. The most important thing when this happens is to seek help immediately.
Intimacy should be enjoyed and not endured, and when you find your self in such a situation, it time to get the drawing board, and restrategize. It would be an added advantage if your partner feels the same way, which makes the work even easier for both of you.
Whenever you get to that dark place of your intimate relationship with your partner, always remind yourself that physical intimacy was made for enjoyment and pleasure, it is one of nature’s best gifts and reward in a life where everything might seem very chaotic and disorderly.
In other words, it can be your safe place!
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