Honestly, this article isn’t about It is a point to note that there are reasons why good girls remain single to 40years without seeing any one they can tie the knot with.Good girls who are hardworking, intelligent, beautiful etc but still find it hard to stay in a relationship and find that special someone.
They wonder why the so called “BAD” girls, those ones who are termed carefree, are the ones who get married first , while they still remain single way into their forties. We see a situation where a beautiful girl, hardworking, God- fearing, successful at what she does but still single way into her forties.
Here are some of the reason why good girls remain single to 40years
Some Ladies by choice choose to be single. We have seen situations where a certain lady will decide on her own that she does not want to get married or have children. She does not want to be under a man and do not want the commitment that marriage offers. She prefers her singleness and also her freedom. In this situation the Lady in question has decided and made a choice on her own that she chooses her single life to being married. She enjoys her singleness and has no qualms about it.
TOO MUCH ATTACHMENT TO THEIR IMMEDIATE FAMILY
A lot of women pay too much attention to their immediate family that they forget to live their own lives. It isn’t about you being selfish here, its about you knowing you have to start considering your life goals first. We are not proposing you neglect your immediate family, but a situation where you are so preoccupied with them that you forget your needs is worrisome. Some Ladies here become parents even way before they are parents. They totally carry the burden of the family and have no time to work and plan for their own life goals as it concerns marriage. This is one of the reasons why good girls remain single to 40 years. In this situation you must learn how to balance the situation between your immediate family and your life goals.
DRESSING AND COMPORTMENT
Your dressing and comportment is very important and is one of the reasons why good girls remain single to 40years. It is important to note that men see you before they see the inner you. Men are very visual. They see the packaging before they see the product. You need to flaunt your feminity and the only way yiy can do that is by how do dress and comport your self.Understand your body type and body shape. Wear clothes that accentuates your body type. We are not talking dress provocatively but you can dress in a sophisticated and elegant manner and get haeds turning. The way yo walk, sit, talk is very important. Your faclal expressions is also important. Learn to know yourself and find out what part of your facial expression is most charming. Is it your smile? Then you must know how to flaunt it. The fact still remains that men see you before your character. Learn to be beautiful and be happy with your self and radiate elegance, friendliness, charm, sensuality. Learn to always highlight what makes you attractive
4.TOO ENGROSSED IN WORK
Having a life’s purpose that preoccupies you is good, but a situation where you are too engrossed in your work that you have no time to mingle isn’t it at all. You need to create time to socialize and meet people. Your job or work is supposed to help you createbalance and provide an avenue of meeting people.
Jenny Soul is a passionate relationships expert, dating counselor and sales coach. She is also a songwriter, performer and mum. When she is not writing, she engages in counselling sessions and motivational speeches to young people.