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How to use your femininity to get what you want

Jenny Soul by Jenny Soul
June 5, 2021
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Happy international women’s day ladies, and right now I want to give out some tips on How to use your femininity to get what you want. Lots of women don’t understand what femininity is all about and how to use it to their advantage.

Feminine power and energy is what every woman should understand and know  how to use to her advantage. So many people get the word femininity wrong. I bet the only word or meaning you’ve heard close to femininity is a woman called a feminist.

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That isn’t what I’m talking about here. I’m talking about a woman embracing her womanly and feminine qualities or nature  such as charm, sensitivity, sweetness, tenderness,humility, helpfulness,kindness, affection, empathy etc. In fact talk about a woman being a Lady.

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Now let’s get down to it. Let’s show you How to use your femininity to get what you want. How to use your womanhood to your advantage

 

HOW YOU LOOK MATTERS

Talking about your femininity goes a long way especially when we talk about your looks or appearance. As a woman, people see you first before we talk about the Innate qualities you have. When you don’t care how you look,you sure won’t go far. When we talk about looks we talk about how you dress. Your dressing depicts your womanhood. Dress well according to your body type or shape.

 

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Accentuate your curves and project your positives and play down on your negatives.

People see you before they see what you have inside. Think about this, the more you look feminine and put together, you get doors open for you.

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You really can use your femininity to get what you want. Your looks is sure one of the key ways of How to use your femininity to get what you want.

Remember your looks apart from your dressing comprises of your hair, makeup,nails,skin,personal grooming etc. In a workplace for instance, the way you look added to other qualities can earn you recognition,respect, promotion etc.

No disrespect to Ladies who like to look tom boyish but imagine you level up and bring your femininity out and start to look good with beautiful hair and dress,I’m sure people will be respond to you differently and begin to take you more seriously .

I know a friend who loved to wear pants and sneakers with a shirt that actually made her look masculine. That sort of look and dressing didn’t do justice to her. She later changed her look and dressing and this earned her some respect and success.She also got to date correctly and this earned her the right type of man.The right type of guys got attracted to her because she changed the way she dressed. Talk about How to use your femininity to get what you want

Also we need to be careful we don’t overdo it,  Your looks speaks volume about the type of person you are. Your make up must look adequate and not too loud, your clothes or dressing must not spell desperation, talk about too tight and too much revealing clothes.  You must learn to dress for all occasions. If you have a job interview, you must know what to put on and use your femininity to your advantage and look the part. If you have a dinner date, you must know how to look to come out elegant and classy.

 

The truth is, you really don’t have to break the bank to look put together. The ability to look out for good fabric, knowing how to combine colours, having your clothes look clean and well ironed, ,dressing for your body type and shape,knowing designs and colours that flatter your body type, my God if you ve got beautiful legs wear something above the knees to show off those legs, if it’s your shoulders wear clothes that flatter that area, it’s sure a tip on How to use your femininity to get what you want as well as getting yourself noticed.

 

YOUR BODY LANGUAGE AND ATTITUDE

Your body language and how you act is also part of your femininity. The way you talk, walk,sit, react to situations all add up to your femininity. Imagine siting at a bar or a company reception with your body or shoulders slouched. It depicts a woman who seems to lack confidence. Your confidence as  a woman takes you very far in life. It shows in the way you walk, talk, sit, smile etc. It even shows in how you smile.

Always learn to show your feminine side, when you walk, do it with grace and style sway your hips without making it look too forceful. Your carriage means a whole lot in learning how to bring out your femininity.

Some women don’t know how to walk properly. Some shuffle their feet or walk too fast and carelessly. Even if you were late and had to walk too fast, do it well. The way you walk can get heads turning sure  a way of How to use your femininity to get what you want.

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BRINGING OUT YOUR FEMININE NATURE

Like I mentioned in the beginning of this write up. Women are nurturers and depict feminine qualities like kindness, empathy, sweetness, being helpful etc. Always learn to show these qualities as well as also learn how to set boundaries. It’s.a sure way on How to use your femininity to get what you want. Learn to use these qualities when the occasion calls for it. Lend a helping hand when a friend is in need, show empathy when a friend has lost someone etc. These nature and qualities come to us easily but most times some women tend to suppress it and behave otherwise.

 

Ever heard that phrase “How could she do this and she’s a woman” Some women suppress these feminine attributes for too much masculinity.

Your voice as a woman is also something that projects your femininity. Work on your voice if it’s so coarse. Your voice is one of the sure ways of How to use your femininity to get what you want. A beautiful soft voice can calm the most  troubled situations and get you want you want.

Ladies, just learn how to be the woman God made you to be and use it to your advantage.  Sure

 

 

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