Ladies, you expect a lot from a man when dating and that expectation is where you build your loopholes, waiting for him to fall so you can tell yourself that you were right.
I can tell you that those expectations of yours do not allow you to see the things your man is doing to show how into the relationship he is, I bet you didn’t think of this. Mellow down your high hopes and look at the little things he is doing to prove to you that he is interested in the relationship and your welfare is a top priority in his head.
It is alright to also have your own expectations but do it while looking at the important things in front of you. Here are ten things you do when he’s really into the relationship.
He takes charge.
Naturally men are like to be in charge of everything, I guess that is their nature, they were constructed like that, but in relationship, most times they are scared to take charge because it is a matter of trust, they do not know if you are really into the relationship or still they get scared to take charge for other reasons.
But when he is really into the relationship, he takes charge of everything and has a sense of direction. He is the one leading the affairs in the relationship.
His respect for you is true.
He respects you and the decisions you make. He makes your ideas his own and tries to help you achieve your goals, your kind of person is not a matter to argue about, he accepts you the way you are and adores who you are.
He is responsible for his decisions and actions.
You will see him making life changing decisions and he will stand by those decisions no matter how hard they get. He becomes responsible for his actions, he may even make decisions that include you, his future plans will no longer be for him alone but for you as well and he will do all he can to make that a reality. You become his responsibility secretly.
He becomes honest.
The reason why some men lie is because they do not have anyone to report to or whom the lies might affect negatively, but when a man is really into you, he becomes honest because he does not want to lose you to a lie he told somewhere.
He ensures to satisfy you mentally and sexually.
Your mental state becomes his priority, he does all he can to ensure that you are safe mentally and sexually satisfied, he may even go as far as learning new things or ways to help satisfy you sexually because he knows that your satisfaction is his satisfaction.
He does not neglect his personal goals
Despite being busy and learning how to be content with you, he does not neglect his personal goals, in fact he pursues them even more than before because he knows that achieving them will make both of you happy. He knows that you are interested in his goals and if he achieves them you will be proud of him , so being with you is a drive to achieving these personal goals.
He is not scared to make tough decisions
He makes tough decisions knowing that he has your support and that is all he needs to achieve anything. Have you seen a man making a decision to rule an empire when all he has is nothing? Yes, that is the kind of decision you will find your man making when he is really into you. His confidence comes from the way he feels about you and that is enough to make him want to take on the world.
He protects the relationship from intruders
Having made you his priority, it is also his duty to protect the relationship from intruders, you don’t need to remind him what to do, he does whatever he can to protect the relationship because he values you and do not intend to lose you whatever families and friends are saying instead he becomes bent on keeping you in a safe place- do not forget that you have automatically become his top priority, so relationship intruders he is ready to fight off.
Your emotional and physical status are protected by him
This one thing most women like, to be protected by the male. I must confess that from my end, it feels good to have someone protect your emotional and physical status. It feels as though I don’t have any baggage and all my baggage is safe with someone trustworthy. For the man, he will do anything to lighten your load when he is really into you so protecting your emotional and physical state is not a deal to be argued but a responsibility that ought to be carried out and he is willing to do it.
Without questioning or waiting to be told, he commits completely and fully to the relationship, because this is where he has chosen to build his ark! He does all he can for the good and sundry of the relationship, he doesn’t look at other girls with the intention of committing to them because his commitment is with you already. When it comes to commitment, some men are scared to commit but whenever they commit they have committed and that is all you need to know that he is really into your matter.
Now the above ten points are very crucial in the men’s world because they don’t like for you to know exactly how they think, it makes them feel exposed and vulnerable, which is quite understandable but now you know, watch out for these signs and when you see them be happy and content that he has parked his boat at your doorstep and when a man does that he means it.
When he is really into you he takes nothing about you for granted, rather everything about you becomes a matter to solve, your happiness is his priority.