RELATIONSHIPS HEART TO HEART
LADIES-HOW TO POSITION YOURSELF TO BE PROPOSED TO…
Yes Ladies about time we got a grip on how the mind of a man works. How to get what we want in relationships isn’t rocket science. All we need is tact and wisdom, this we can do, without losing our self esteem or dignity.
It is Okay to desire Marriage as a young lady. It’s perfectly normal.There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.But then, how we go about it and who finally becomes your Prince Charming is where the point is. Could it be that guy you are dating at the moment, or someone entirely New?? Here are 5 steps on what to do
1 BEING THE RIGHT TYPE OF GIRL FOR MARRIAGE
What sort of babe are you? What’s your character like? Is your personality pleasant. Are you the type like Racheal in the bible who Abraham’s servant in search of a wife for Isaac asked her for drinking water and she didn’t only offer him water but also gave his camels water to drink as well “Genesis 24”. Its important you be in a good frame of mind for marriage. So discard those negative attitudes.
2. HAVE SOMETHING THAT KEEPS YOU BUSY
You definitely won’t be siting around waiting for your Prince Charming. Get a job, a business, a trade. Something that keeps your mind busy and work at being the best at it.
3. WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE OR IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP HAVE AN EAGLE EYE.
Get to find out about who you are dating.Do a background check. Do you know his history? What sort of person is He? Is he the kind of man you want to spend the rest of your life with.Do you share the same values? How does he treat people around him and most importantly, how does he treat you.
4. BE OF VALUE
Always add value to your relationships, don’t deplete it. ie if for instance the guy you are dating likes to eat out all the time, offer to prepare a meal, If he is a scatter brain, help him get organised etc find a niche where you can be greatly missed. Sex isn’t everything. He can get it elsewhere if he wishes Be a lady of inestimable value and Be greatly missed that he ll want you forever!
5 WATCH AND PRAY NEVER ACT DESPERATE
You know your worth, Never reduce yourself or do what you ‘ll never be proud of because you want to get married. Pray! Pray for a good jlhusband, Pray for a good marriage. In his own time God will make all things beautiful.
