5 REASONS HE DOESN’T CALL BACK AFTER THE FIRST DATE

Every relationship has it ups and down. Getting into one can be exciting as well as tiring. Judith was excited she was going into a new relationship after her long break up with Hilary. She met Frank recently at a seminar. They had a bit of a chit chat, she kind of liked him or so she taught. They had a date the weekend later. It was lovely, She had a Swell time. He took her home afterwards and promised to call later. She waited for his call and it never came. She waited and waited, she tried to call back and no response. She became worried and asked herself what could have happened????? Oh yes stuff like this do happen, some would say her Village people are it again oooo

Here are 5 Reasons Why a Guy never calls back after a date!!!

1. THE PRESSURE AND INTENSITY OF THE DATE SCARES THE GUY AWAY

Ladies tend to over prepare for a date. They over process and have high expectations when they meet a new guy. Some even begin to call the guy Mr Right. They get so excited when they meet someone new that their mindset tell them that the new relationship will definitely end in marriage. The new guy picks up this attitude on the first date and kind of run scared. Ladies let’s learn to relax and let the relationship flow. Enjoy the date for what it is. A first date. Keep your expectations locked up. Get to know the guy as a friend, laugh, share jokes, do not be too serious otherwise you make the guy uncomfortable. Relax and keep an open mind!

2. OVER CHATTING ONLINE
When you meet someone new online it’s best to chat for a while and then meet face to face. You learn a lot about someone when you see them face to face. Over-chatting online creates false fantasies and blinds you to who the real person is. When you meet someone online you assess the person through their profile, its always best you meet them in person. If their is no real chemistry the parties back off.

3. HE IS ALREADY IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP
He is in a committed relationship and probably trying to test the waters and not sure what he wants. He runs hot and cold and leaves you confused and never calls back after the first date

4. HE IS NOT INTO YOU OR VICE VERSA
This occurs where there is no chemistry between both parties. Ever been on a date where one party stares at his watch constantly and hopes the whole show would be over. In this situation one or both parties have no intention to move the relationship to the next phase

5. NATURAL OCCURRENCES
He might have misplaced your number, had his phone stolen,gone out of town or something. Men are equally human, but don’t sit around waiting for his call forever. Do all you can and move on with your life