Proposals usher in the next stage of every relationship, and it is important that you are ready physically, and emotionally, for making that commitment into forever.
The end goal of most relationships is marriage, but there are certain things you need to do before you settle with that individual for the rest of your life and it involves some sort of planning. Here are things to put into consideration and plan for before you say ‘Yes’ or pop the question as the case maybe.
For Ladies: When the relationship begins to get much more intense, you need to be aware that glory day may come at any time. The best ways to get cues of when your man will be ready would be random discussions and conversations. While some men would prefer to make it a secret, others might want to hint to so that you can get ready before they decide to pop the question.
If you are not ready to begin that journey with him, it is best you hint him about it well, or come out straight and talk about it. That way, you are both on the same page on the issue. You can trust your gut feeling on the very day he would decide to ask the question and get ready ahead of time. If he doesn’t, then you have nothing to lose, rather being caught unawares, most especially when you know your answer might not be in the affirmative.
Saying ‘Yes’ to a proposal, indicate the start of the next level of your relationship, hence it is not a decision made on impulse, or at the spur of the moment. Think through and be sure you are ready to stick to whatever decision you make.
For Guys: Just the thought of planning the proposal can be overwhelming, but at the end of the day, every single action would turn out to be worth it. When you eventually find the one you would love to spend the rest of your life with, you need to calmly make that decision to keep her forever, and the first step to that would be proposing to her.
It can be as overwhelming for her as it is for you, so make sure you are not being irrational when she feels anxious about it, and this is depending on whether this is coming as a surprise to her not. When you are planning your the big day, ensure that you have put into consideration the little perks of your partner’s preferences, and if she has hinted, the kind of proposal she would adore, then it’s best you walk in line with that, otherwise, follow your heart, and make it special and memorable, and while you are that, remind yourself that the worst that could happen would be a ‘NO’
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